GRRRR

Alright, folks…. this is it….

I think most of you already know this already, and so should just about anyone else who associates with me, but apparently some people don’t clue in after being flat-out told.

(Begin rant.)

If I do something that makes you uncomfortable and you wish I wouldn’t, JUST SAY SO. If I push your boundaries too far, JUST SAY SO. If I talk too much and you would like me to shut up for a while, JUST SAY SO. If you feel like I need to back off a bit, JUST SAY SO. If you don’t want to talk to me / see me / whatever anymore, JUST SAY SO.

DO ***NOT*** EXPECT ME TO READ YOUR MIND.

I do LOTS of things, good and bad - mind reading is NOT one of them.

Especially do NOT give some vague comment about “needing to talk in person” and then leave things silently hanging for a week or more. This drives me batty faster than almost anything.

ESPECIALLY if you are MALE.

ESPECIALLY if we’ve been seeing each other a lot recently.

This is not cool, this is not kind, and this is not humane.

So, to recap:

IF YOU HAVE SOMETHING ON YOUR MIND, JUST COME OUT AND BLOODY WELL SAY IT ALREADY SO EVERYBODY KNOWS WHERE THEY STAND AND NOBODY IS LEFT WONDERING WHAT THEY SHOULD OR SHOULD NOT BE DOING. DIG???

(End rant.)

Thank you and have a lovely day.

~ by J. on July 9, 2006.